To be or not To be

A raging question which has been burning in my mind for a few days. Should you change yourselves, your nature, your behaviour.
Should you be ready to change your personality to suit your surroundings??
Should you change yourselves because you sometimes hurt other people by trying to be too friendly???
Should you change yourselves because you cant make out the difference between a good friend and an ok friend???
Should you change yourselves because you sometimes frustrate yourselves by behaving the way you do??

And in doing this should you change the way you are naturally and beacome an artificail and plastic copy of what you are just so that you dont hurt others and in return you save yourself from getting hurt by their reaction. Isnt this life supposed to be lived so that we can live it the way we want to live instead of caring for what the other person would think when you say this or how would she react when i say this.

I dont understand why cant we just live the life with those for whom we care and those who care for us instead of trying to be acceptable to your surrounding. Why do we have to live in the society and comply by the norms of the society and try to change ourselves even when we know that this is gonna hurt us… and you are not gonna live your natural life in those surroundings.
Why is life bound to be so fucking hard to live?? Why can’t it be just a simple and uncomplicate dproblem whose algorithm can be designed in a simple step wihtout beaking it into simpler and smaller problems whose solutions whose solutions we have to find while bearing so many problems.

Why should you talk to a person whom you dont want to coz (s)he is talking to you.


PS1:- Bloody shit
PS2:- Blah blah
PS3:- GO to hell if you are a moron

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7 thoughts on “To be or not To be

  1. bhai r u alright ???(silly question u r obviously not.)
    after reading your two consecutive posts it seems that you strongly need some counseling (maybe i am exaggerating) but at least you should talk to your friends whom you consider will actually help you….
    and yeah we do need to change ourself according to situations that is how life goes …. its simple actually [not always though]
    anyway i hope that you get answers to all your questions asap
    all the best….:)

  2. arey oh frustu aise post likhke mujhe aur mat frusta [as if i am already not]………on a serious note , dont you remember the comment you gave on one of my posts : ‘life is a not a bed of roses , you got to learn to sleep on thorns as well’.

    ps : saale zyada ho gayi thi kya kal jo ye pos likh dala 😀

  3. @ Karan: I dunno yaar!!
    @ shrikant: May be you are right.. 🙂 I too hope that i get my answers.. 🙂
    @ Pagare: Well i said that but actually who wants to do that :p and kuch zyada nahin hua tha but itwas diff that day which forced the emotions out of me.. 🙂
    And ya billu sure rocks… FOr the uninformed Billu is my roomie Maruti and the incident pagare is referring to is one day.. while in deep sleep all of a sudden Maruti blurted out minus of minus 9 while i was fascinating abt something and disturbed my beautiful thoughts…. 😦

  4. Wow..may be iam too late to visit this post of yours and comment on it..But I would love to…You seem to be really really hurt..One thing I have discovered in my own little experience is that life is not at all hard..Its very simple,and if it is not,well atleast you can try your level best to simplify it..Why compliate things..You love talking to a person,talk to that person.If you have a problem with that person,tell him what your problem is.Simplify at every level….Life is too short to complicate..Party and enjoy it to the maximum before we lose it !!

  5. @the_post .. Life is not easy dude … i have been into conditons when even my best friend was lookin like one of my enemy … I havent found the asnwers to your question yet 😦 .. .

    @Himank .. Bastard … Now u have made Billu public .. i will sue your ass for this ..

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