This post is dedicated to all frustu and despo guys(Including me!!) n gals too!! who are very eager to get involved in a relation. Each and every guy(since i am a guy so i will be concentrating on guys) of my age with whom i might have any form of interaction have a very strong and burning desire, a girl who he can call as ‘HIS’. The first piece of conversation, i have with my school friends whom i am talking to after much time is whether i have a ‘girlfriend’ or not(after exchanging pleasantries) and the same quesion is also reciprocated by me. Just goes to say how deep in to our hearts this need and feeling has gone…
Sometimes i just can’t comprehend why everybody (ofcourse including me 😉 ) is so desperate to have a relationship. Is it due to the comfort level you think that you will have with the special someone after you have found her/him? It may be also due to the peer pressure faced by the people watching people their age having girlfriends OR it is that after coming to college people start feeling that they have reached the gae where it is imperative to be involved in a relation. Any of the reasons which i have listed here can be countered here and now.. the last two reasons can be just dismissed as rubbish with no logic behind them while the first one seems to be a good and logical one but you can’t be too sure that the person with whom you get involved after sometime you will share the same bonding. Most of the time a guy ad a gal get attracted to each other after looking at the others personality and physical appearances, in such cases how can you be so sure that you will have any level of comfort with such a person. This seems like just a pile of rubbish, i myself was attracted to a girl without talking to her and had decided to pursue her but a comment by my friend made me realise that this was gonna be a futile exercise and i couldnt ever think of having a girlfriend like this… getting attracted to her just by looking at her and then falling for her.
Well ofcourse if you are just interestd in the physcal aspect of the relation then there is no problem in going for a relation this way but the main thing is most of the guys i have interacted with and whom i am trying to represent (hopefully) they dont want a relation just for this purpose. A guy looks for support and strength when he is looking for a girl (physical part can be a by-product which a guy would surely enjoy but…) so this is not the right way for a guy to approach a relation.
I dont know what picture of me will be portrayed by this post of mine. Somebody might think that i am a frustrated despo guy in every sense somebody might think that i am thinking something..but who cares this is my space 🙂
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