Boy -> Man – II & UG4 farewell

I think some of the readers of my blog might remember me writing a blog eons ago on almost the same title. In that post i had posted a query about when a boy grows up and becomes a man and i had some ideas but on the whole i was a confused brain not able to decide that when can u start calling a male man instead of boy. Wont say that i found an answer to that question but found an answer some what related to the question. I got the answer to when a person can think of himself as a man and this answer came to me courtesy my friend with whom i was chatting.

Actually i was talking chatting with my friend about a problem i was facing and i was getting no solution to the problem and i was cribbing and all and saying some shit and constantly telling my friend that i know what i am doing is not right but i cant force myself to do the right thing though knowing that this could land me up in trouble and leave me a sad guy after i have faced the consequences and then my friend told me “Look himank this is not the way… you have to grow up…its high time and will be good that you realise” and at that point realisation dawned upon me like a ray of light and its then that i realised what being a man is and if i can duplicate the words i told my friend ” I guess today i realise what being a man is ” so to quote my words again they were being a man is ” something like being mature enough to solve your problems on your own and doing what is right even when it seems difficult to do it” and that was it. The definition of being a man dawned on me.

Now that i know what being a man is I can surely say that i am not a man yet i am just a young boy because even after knowing that what i was doing was wrong i am still gonna do it.. :p


With all due regards and respect to my seniors, the informal function of the UG4 farewell sucked.. All of us UG2 guys went to the function with high hopes and hoping for a repeat of what happened last year when it was an enjoyable affair but this time we were utterly disappointed.. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ Dont know what happened to the UG4 guys.. agreed the speeches by IV sir and Mangla sir were good and the constant IV..IV.. were good but the informal session was devios of the entertainment… I should stop now before UG4 guys get an oppurtinity to beat a guy just before graduating out of this college…

PS1:- Was supposed to be a long post containing many things but dont feel like writing more
PS2:- Holidays started.. ๐Ÿ™‚ Its too boring ๐Ÿ˜ฆ but atleast we are free ๐Ÿ™‚ SO hols rock…
PS3:- Finally 4th sem ended.. ๐Ÿ™‚ It is so satisying now life seems a bit more relaxed…
PS4:- This is my 99th post… now loking forward to writing 100th ๐Ÿ™‚ …
PS5:- My bloggin frequency has declined dramatically earlier it was due to the workload and tension in the 4th sem now its coz i am just lazy… :p

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8 thoughts on “Boy -> Man – II & UG4 farewell

  1. ๐Ÿ˜› … i agree with mythalez

    Are Beta bada hoja … kab sikega … ๐Ÿ˜›

    missed the farewell man ….

  2. dude i too am in a state a lot like you
    so confused about things and it sux
    and yes for heavens sake increase ur blogging freq. ๐Ÿ˜€

    @maruti: its good that you missed the farewell ๐Ÿ˜€

  3. I missed the farewell too !!
    well when i read the title i thought you wrote something about the final year students moving out of the college life and stepping into real world !!
    Anyways i liked the definition of “MAN” !!
    waiting for your 100th post !!

  4. Nice Post.
    I also wrote something on the issue of Maturity in my last post “Fear”, you can read it if you want to. In my opinion we behave with immaturity due to two reasons,
    1. Lack of Awareness.
    2. Lack of Competence.
    First comes the awareness part and then the competence. Even after getting the awareness we behave wit immaturity due to lack of realization of knowledge which leads to lack of competence. When these two barriers are crossed then maturity automatically reflects into our behavior. We all are moving on the way to achieve maturity which needs and lots of awareness and introspection. I am happy that you are working on both. I am also trying to do it.
    Best of Luck

  5. @ mythalez: With me its more dependent on my mood… I have wriiten two posts in a day one time and 2 posts in a day during end sems but this time just didnt feel like doing it..

    @Maruti: Yahan bada hone ki kya bat thi???

    @ Shrikant: Promise you my blogging freq will increase now..

    @ Harsh : Am glad that you liked it…

    @ Devansh : Tried to read your post many times but its damn biiiig.. so couldnt ever complete it.. will try to read it.

    @ Obelix aka IV : With due regards to you my seniors ๐Ÿ˜› … this year farewell wasnt as enjoyable as last year’s ofcourse except your speech.. that was good… Last year Gaurav Jain and daddu were awesome we were expecting something like that… and many ppl from your batch didnt even turn out for the informal session which was really disappointing

    @ Riya : Thanx.. and try to start writing some full letters so that it doest look like an sms… ๐Ÿ˜‰

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